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Unmasking Therapy: Why Successful People Feel Like Frauds (and how to stop)

Written by: George Moujaes, Pre-licensed Therapist


Impostor syndrome is the persistent feeling of being a fraud—of not being as
competent, intelligent, or accomplished as others perceive you to be.

🚨 Important to Note:

  • It’s not a mental disorder and isn’t listed in the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders).
  • It’s a reaction to certain situations rather than a pathological condition.
  • It distorts your self-perception, making you doubt your own abilities and achievements.

Who Experiences Impostor Syndrome?
Impostor syndrome can affect anyone, but it’s especially common among:
✔️ High achievers who fear they aren’t “good enough”
✔️ Students in new academic environments
✔️ Professionals stepping into leadership roles

✔️ Ethnic minorities & marginalized groups who face systemic barriers
✔️ Anyone facing new challenges & responsibilities

How to Overcome Impostor Syndrome

💡 1. Recognize and Normalize It

  • You’re not alone—impostor syndrome is common.
  • Understand that it’s normal to feel out of place when trying something new.

💡 2. Focus on Your Achievements

  • Instead of dwelling on what you don’t know, reflect on what you’ve already accomplished.
  • Keep a success journal to track wins, big or small.

💡 3. Expect and Prepare for Discomfort

  • New situations can feel intimidating, but preparing ahead of time helps build confidence.
  • Give yourself permission to learn instead of expecting perfection.

💡 4. Seek Support Through Therapy

  • Group therapy helps normalize the experience and build social resilience.
  • Individual therapy (especially Relational-Cultural Therapy) can help:
    • Foster self-empathy and mutual empathy
    • Reframe negative thoughts & develop healthy relational expectations
    • Address systemic factors like racism & societal pressures that contribute to impostor feelings.

Final Thoughts: You Belong Here!
Impostor syndrome thrives on self-doubt, but you are more capable than you think.
Recognizing its effects, challenging negative beliefs, and seeking support can help you break free from its grip.

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